How To Get A 'Yes' to Your Proposal

One of the big challenges a man has to face in life is when it comes to making a marriage proposal to his wife-to-be. Do you know why I say it is a challenge? It comes with a lot of anxiety and stress. And when this challenge is not faced or tackled in the right manner, then there is every tendency that you get a ‘NO’ for an answer.

Before making a proposal to your bride-to-be, you must think deep on how to make that day a memorable one; let it have an emotional effect on the woman that she will forever live to remember.

There are few important things to put in place before making a marriage proposal; it’s crucial and I know that you don’t want to blow it out.

There is something I have come to understand in the game of love; of all the times spent with a woman, there is none that emotionally drives a woman crazy like the day a man is proposing to her. They become thrilled and their hearts seem to totally melt down and what comes in next looks like a struggle between the mouth and the heart.

During this time, the bride-to-be is like a woman on the spot of a three way junction; not knowing the direction to take.

But she must give a ‘YES’ or ‘NO’ reply to your proposal.

Today, I will be showing to you the real simple step to get a ‘YES’ answer to your request. Am sure this is what you want, or do you want a ‘NO’ for an answer?

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1.      A Strong Approval from Family:

This is the most important basis for your acceptance. A legitimate marriage cannot go on without the due consent from both your family and the family of the woman.

Are you a man that is not well acquainted with the woman’s family and you are expecting a ‘YES’ answer to your proposal? Then you are wrong. A woman is most ready to give a positive response if you are moving and communicating freely with her family. Remember that your mode of interaction with the family will determine if they will accept you or not.

You should know the family you are accepting; be open to them; visit them often. That’s truly a better foundation to start on.

Getting a strong approval from both families is a sure step that your proposal would turn out positive.

2.      Know Her Interests:

A woman loves a man who is caring, loving and knows much of what she likes and dislikes. Before making a marriage proposal, take your time to find the interests of the woman; her hobbies and places of interest.

Put all these into consideration before implementing your proposal plans.

In as much as you are considering her interest, know that it’s also going to be an expression of your love for her.

Don’t rush making a marriage proposal without knowing and understanding the woman’s interest. She might be the shy type and wouldn’t want you to propose to her in a public place.

Understanding your woman’s interest enables you to make preparations that are in line with what she likes.

3.      Put all Machinery in Place:

Now that you have the interests of your woman at heart, the next step to take is to make sure that everything needed to make that day a memorable one is put in place.

Ensure that your preferred venue and location is suitable and conducive for your woman. If she does not like an open place, you can do well by getting a secluded place that would fit in to her liking.

When choosing a venue, a calm and peaceful place would be better and am sure that you wouldn’t want to do your proposal in one joint that is piled up with drunkards and talkative.

If finding a suitable location looks too tough for you, then it’s good you hire an agent to do that for you. All you have to do is give a vivid description of what you want and throw out few pennies for it.

You might also want to check out list of beautiful rings to buy for your adoring bride-to-be.

4.      Your Kneel on the Ground:

Wow! This seems to be the most interesting part of it all. Some men think it foolish to kneel before a woman while proposing. But it’s not.

Kneeling before her shows the deep respect you have for her. And it takes only a gentle man to do that.

During this time, try as much as you can to be emotional; look to the ground while kneeling and after that look straight to her eyes and after a few minutes of silence, make your proposal.

Believe me, when you kneel down to her, this comes to her like a dream come true. [Related article:]

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