Applicable Strategies for Approaching a Girl you just met for the first time

Oh my God! How will I speak to her? This one question which is as a result of uncourageous Conscience has really made something which is unfixed by nature to be fixed and that is poor to poor and rich to rich.

Today the statistic of marriage should be able to show that 5 out of 7 rich women who got married got married to wealthy men.

The issue here is not because the rich don't like the poor but because the poor made themselves poor and are underrated by the act of poverty. There are times rich women fall in love with the poor and underrated guys but why this don't happen easily is because the guys are not courageous to make it real.

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The few rich women who got married to the fortunate poor men go in two ways!

• It is either the poor man was courageous to meet with the rich woman despite the financial challenges. But in this case it is rated to be only 12%

• Or the woman Just fall in love with the poor man and was bold to propose her love  but in this case it is rated 95%

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With the above statistic I believe you now know that it is only lack of courage and self degrading attitude that makes the poor not being able to propose love to the rich.

I won't bridge to far in talking on that let come back to our discussion the idea of this headline was  derived from the fact that most of my friends and relatives even at the matured stage still don't know how to approach a girl they meet for the first time.

Perhaps inside the bank or somewhere else you just met a girl and you seem interested in her but instead  of you to be a man that you are you just go by consoling your uncourageous act with thoughts like, ‘I will meet some other better girls but I think this one is not for me’ what if she is the right person don't you know you also stand a chance of losing her?

The characters needed to approach such girls are but few:

  

•     Know your speech and brighten your face with smiles. Is that not too easy to do but you still find it difficult!

One thing you must not do is, don't press for her contact at first Just go like, ‘Hi  pretty damsel I have spent over a week in this vicinity hoping to see nice faces one day, but it seems all the nice and good looking pals are all gone and deserted not until I just saw you. At least to let you know you are really beautiful among all’.

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Expect what will come out from the ladies opinion before pressing ahead but in most cases the ladies only say something like "Thanks" and expect you to feed them more.

So if she goes on like that, you can just admire some other things like their hairstyle.If you don't know how to compliment a lady, please read this “Wow! Your beauty is tripled with wonderful hairstyle! Just wish I was a lady I think I will point at you from the saloon for a style like this”.

Whatever you are saying now is just to draw her attention but nothing else and mind you this can only be done in some occasions like where you are free to walk a mile or sit with her.

Now it is time for introduction Am Harrison by name but friends do call me Harry and I live somewhere around here.  It will be a pleasure knowing a pretty damsel like you!

it is now her turn to introduce herself if she is interested but some girls always claim stubborn but know how you go about it in such cases do everything jocosely.

After all that you can now collect her contact since that's the easiest way to get her because meeting her for the first time it won't be wise saying anything silly and without contact you stand a chance of losing her since you may not see her again. But the issue here is that how will you bring up the issue?

How to get her contact If I were to be you I will go like scrolling through my phone contacts and make some fetish calls like "Hello boss and bla bla bla..” You can now excuse the girl and tell her your boss just called and you have to take your leave.

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“It won't be wise I leave a good friend without leaving any contact, please dear can you give me your contact number?  Perhaps I will reach you after attending to the emergency call.

She may give you, if you interest her but if she doesn’t, try getting other strategies from the excuse she will give and I believe you will succeed her. If you succeed then the rest games are yours.

In summary to all my above inscription

·        Be bold at first in meeting her

·        Put on smiles on your look

·        Catch her attention

·        Don't ask her contact first but start by admiring her .

·        Do brief introduction.

·        Give excuse to leave with her contact

·        Now play your game.

Note there is no best applicable strategy to woo her since girls attitude towards issues differs, so try catching words from every reply she gives and be focus at all point.

Over to you now, what other strategies do you consider working when speaking to a lady you just met for the first time.

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