You've found that special one and you
want her to be yours, but you don’t know what to do, how to start, and who to
run to. Yes! I just used the word "Run to" because actually it’s an
emergency issue; you won’t be the only one trying, so you've got to strive for
what you want. To do that, read and be guided by these killer strategies.
- First and foremost be "YOU"
Do you think we love when you fake it?
Not at all. The truth is, you can't keep up with it, and when we get to
discover, you just ruined it all. There's nothing like being real and making a
girl loves you for who you are. You won't have to go through all that stress
living a fake life and you will have that peace of mind that she loves you for
real. But if you decide to be fake and claim who you are not and you think
you've won her heart, my dear sorry, but you've not because she doesn't love
you but the fake you. So being real matters a lot.
- Take things slowly by being a
good friend first
Some guys just feel the best way to
win her heart is just barging in. If so, you got it all wrong; the best way is
to be friends with her first. Be that person that can tell her were she's wrong
not withstanding her reaction, one that can play with her like a brother, joke
her, tease her, have quarrels and at the same time forgive each other.
This will make her rely on you greatly
and in most cases her feelings for you will grow very fast to the extent she
would wish you two were more than friends. During this time, you are also using
the avenue to study the kind of person she is, if really she's good for you, all
depends on your observations and findings.
- Be Confident
Take it or leave it, one thing that
attracts her to you is your confidence. When you the sluggish and dull type,
you are doing yourself no good because you won't be able to express yourself, but
when you are an embodiment of confidence you can express yourself and speak up
for yourself as this is a plus to winning her heart.
- Have a great sense of Creativity
Guys listen up, being creative is not
making some awkward move or bathing her with gifts just to impress her or even
using your bank account to please her. No! Learn to think outside the box.
Which is not trying to do what other men do to impress a lady, do things that
no one has done before, put up your thought into your date so you will make her
feel special and different from every other girls.
- Be jovial
Girls so much love jovial guys, who
are full of humors, free and humble to the core. They motivate them and get them
close to you. Be free to have that fun you want to have with her. Make her laugh;
show her that with you there is never a dull moment.
This will make her go fond of you and
free with you.
- Add her to your priority list
Yea! Sure make her a priority, while
you at work make a call to check on her. Let her know even at work you have her
in mind. When you come back from work, connect with her and tell her how work
went. Make sacrifices for her.
- Take her unawares by surprises
I assure you she's so going to love
it. Surprise her with things she loves. Let me give out a little trick, try to
study her closely by knowing that colour she loves through the clothes she wear
or ask her about the things she loves, her favorite meal, her favorite colour, places
she loves going and so on.
She might just think you are asking because
you want to know her better. But just think of this, how do you think she will
feel when you get her that nice purple gown? Hmm! she's not going to only love
it but she's going to love you because that was a pretty gown with her favorite
colour. She might even forget she once told you her favorite colour, but you
did remember which a plus is.
- Be caring
Girls love it when they are treated
like a queen. You love her so much and you want her to be happy always, do
things that will make her feel special. Check on her often, make sacrifices, and
shower her with surprises as said previously.
Show her you mean what you are doing
and that you are damn serious about her, be nice to her, share her problems, encourage
and motivate her often. Even when you are out of the country or the state, show
her she's always in your heart by calling or texting her often.
- Be financially capable
Yes, I won't put this out; it’s not
that some ladies do love money a lot. No! What they love is you being
industrious and capable of working. You must have the cash to make her feel
special but spend responsibly and not foolishly.
There’s no way a lady will settle for
a lazy partner, who can't secure themselves financially. So tell me, if you
can't secure yourself financially, how can you secure her?
- Make your family her friends
If really you are true and you serious
about her, you won't fail to create a good relationship between her and your
family members.
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- Make her miss you
At times be available that's when you
have at least make her go fond of you and some other times be less available, this
will make her wonder why you've not shown up or called for some time, and
definitely she will be forced to make the calls to ask how you doing and your
reasons for not calling or checking up on her. Good news is, she just called to
tell you she's missing you!
- Be good looking and a classic man
Dress the way you want to be addressed
doesn’t just apply to the ladies alone but the guys also. If you dress in an
indecent manner like what is known as the "Agbero dressing" don't
just bother to approach her because she won’t even give you a chance. Trust me
on this.
Your appearance and the way you look are
a very strong tool and a great contribution of winning her over. So always
dress smart and classic. Have your hair look neat, have a nice skin. Result is,
she will long after you.
- Be romantic
Yes! It’s part of the Strategy. Be romantic,
have a strong knowledge of being romantic. Don't just be good at other things
without being romantic. Make that move by doing something that would take her
by surprise. Girls love guys who are so romantic…
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thanks for your comment. i will make out time to read that. nice having you here next time.
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