CORE REASONS RELATIONSHIP DO NOT LAST

CORE REASONS RELATIONSHIP DO NOT LAST

CORE REASONS RELATIONSHIP DO NOT LAST

You are warmly welcome here…..

    I understand the fact that you are into one form of relationship or the other, which was what brought you to this page, and am very sure you definitely want a long lasting relationship, in fact everlasting relationship. Right?

If yes, this website is fully here to help you improve in your relationship/family.

This topic was given to me by my Honorable Boss; a person of Harrison, C.E.O at https://www.harryscope.com/

   He gave me several topics to write on, Then I looked at the whole topic and I decided to start with this, because, the rate at which relationship are turning upside down these days is somehow alarming, and as a relationship counselor I think I could be of help in my own little way by giving out useful relationship tips in other to help provide solution to broken relationships/homes, as this is one of the soul aim of establishing this website.

   I think I now have to go straight to the aim of this page because, I won’t like a situation whereby my introduction will be much more than the body of this content.

Now let’s go!

RELATIONSHIP

To understand the full concept of the above topic “Core Reasons Relationship Do Not Last”we need to understand the word “Relationship”

In my previous articles, I have explained 92% of what relationship is all about but I won’t do without saying something here.

In a simple sentence, Relationship is the state of being related or interrelated.

    Being in a relationship should feel good, not anxious or stressful! Good partners recognize that they are a part of your life. Mind you, every relationship has different expectations, but one thing is for certain; you should only be doing things with your partner that you are 100% comfortable with and ready for. People who love you don’t pressure you or shame you for not doing what they want.

    I know by now you might by now have ben tired of this page, am I right? {Yes} Lol You don’t have to be tired nor feel sleepy, you need to spare few time out of your precious time, for the sake of your relationship, mind you, you don’t pay me for writing this, the thing is that: I understand the fact that you must have a long lasting relationship that is why am yet to sleep at this odd time of the night busy cooking something for you, so I see no reason you should feel reluctant to read the complete article or feel like quitting this page….

Now let’s move straight to the our main target

Seven (7) Core Reasons Relationship Do Not Last

1.     Trust: Lack or loss of trust is one of the most harmful contagions to a relationship/couple’s long-term success. Couples no longer have full trust in themselves, even the so called latest couples. Come to think of this; how do you want a family that was built on a faulty foundation to be? It will definitely fall untimely!

     You should never feel pressured to give your partner your passwords, or access to your phone, computer, or anything private. Healthy relationships are built on trust and mutual respect, not suspicion and background checks. You should feel confident that you can hang out with friends, leave your phone unattended, or have someone post on your Facebook wall without getting the third degree!

2.     Miscommunication: Communication plays a crucial role in relationships, to understand one another. When there are disagreements with each other and they don’t sit for a productive conversation, each is staying apart with their ego coming in-between.

        Earlier when you’re dating, each would have long conversations on childhood, on crazy plans and dreams, just about anything. why not now? This is one of the core reason why couples don’t last too long and have a break-up.

3.     Moving Through Life at Different Speeds: When one partner is learning and growing at a rapid pace, while the other is stagnating, this may b a source of relational divergence. One example of this would be a partner advancing quickly in her career and society, while her significant other is stagnating at home. The professional and social circles of the couple begin to diverge, and soon the couple themselves differentiate. They have physically, intellectually, and socially grown apart.

4.     Money Issues: The longer a couple has been together in a committed relationship, the greater the possibility of financial incompatibility. According to research, differences over money is one of the top reasons for marital dissolution. A couple also doesn’t need to be married to have money challenges, even those in courtship are facing this challenge. Money issues taps into our relationship deeply and we are unaware of this secret.

5.     We Are Too Busy For Our Relationship: The modern day man and woman wants the good things of life. They devote all their time and energy chasing the dream and forget to love. These days people don’t have the patience to deal with all that comes with being in a relationship. They are just too busy that they forget to have time 4love.

6.     Role Models: We learn through imitation. We contain within us much more of our parents’ programming than we are aware of. We have recorded subconsciously the ways in which our parents behaved and communicated (or did not communicate) between themselves, with us and with others. We now mechanically repeat this type of communication with our partners, children and friends. We tend to create the problems similar to those that existed in our childhood role models. If our parents were self-suppressing and non-communicative, we tend do the same. If they were competitive and aggressive we are likely to act in a similar way. In some cases, out of reaction, we may do the opposite, but this is also a programming. If we are having communication problems with our loved one, it may be useful to work on transforming our childhood experiences. What we believe to be a problem with our spouse, may actually be simply a projection of a problem with one of our parents.

7.     Needs And Expectations: We expect the other to fulfill our needs and expectations. Lol, am also having a friend facing this challenge.

       We believe that the other, in some magical way, is going to supply us with what is lacking within us. No one can give us inner security or self-worth if we do not have it. If we want to create a harmonious relationship, we will first need to be in harmony with ourselves, which means developing inner security, strength, self-confidence and self-acceptance in all situations.

Opps, am now tired of typing, because am not really fast at typing. I think I have done justice to the above topic by enumerating Seven Core Reasons Relationship Do Not Last.

        Now you have three part to play; (1) You will need to try your possible best to avoid these aforementioned hidden fact in other to have a long lasting relationship. (2) Try to drop a comment here so as to motivate and cheer me up in other to keep bringing you relationship tips (3) Try to click on the share button to share this post with your friends.

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