HOW TO APPROACH AND TALK TO A GIRL FOR THE FIRST TIME

HOW TO APPROACH AND TALK TO A GIRL FOR THE FIRST TIME

I know you are here probably because of that slay queen. Well, you are currently on the right page.

   Few days back, I was on Facebook when I saw this young guy’s post saying “Guys please How Can I Approach a Girl for the First Time”

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There are lot of reactions and silly comments on the post, but I liked the comment for some reason, and that was what begat this post.

Now let’s move on to the business you are here for….

How to Approach To A Lady For The First Time

   Approaching a girl for the first time isn’t as difficult as it seems, girls are equally humans, they have feelings too. Walking up to a girl for the first time would get much easier if you follow the normal procedure of which I will be highlighting below.

   Approaching a lady you don’t know can be a little nerve wracking at first, but once you get used to it, you’ll wonder why it ever intimidated you in the first place. I will advise you pay full attention to this article and read it as if it were something religious; because it will help you take your game to a new {next} level.

Below are the list seven proven and easy tip to toast a lady for the first time:

I will like to do justice to this topic by dividing it into two different phases. Now position yourself right to go into the lecture in full…..

Phase I

Step One: Walk Up to her

   Your approach doesn’t begin when you start talking to her. It begins when you start walking up to her. This means that you should approach as quickly as possible, after you see her to project confidence. Another thing that helps project confidence? Standing up straight with your shoulders back and relaxed. Practice this posture in the mirror for five to ten minutes before you head out for the night. This might sounds somehow funny, but am very sure it will help you when it’s needed.

Step Two: Confidence

  Confident is a type of tool that is inevitable while approaching a lady. You just have to summon all the courage you’ve got and walk. For real, I’ll say there is really no big deal in this. Always remember that she has not met you before, probably not seen you before and it would be nice if you make a very good first impression.

Step Three: Eye contact. 

     If you see someone you’d like to meet, try to make eye contact before talking to her. Once you catch her eye, try to maintain eye contact. If you repeatedly make eye contact with someone, it could be a sign that she wants you to approach her. Three glances from a girl might signal that she’s interested.

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Phase II: Opening the Interaction

Step Four: Smile

   A lot of guys think that they just need the perfect pickup line to really sell themselves. In fact, nothing could be further from the truth. When you start talking to her, the point isn’t to “sell yourself.” Rather, it’s to get her laughing, smiling and relaxing around you. So walk up with a big smile on your face and say something kind of silly. We like things like “You look like trouble” or “Thanks for saving me a seat.” The point is to keep it content free and playful.

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    A big help in this regard is to have a big smile on your face, as we mentioned above. This is something else that’s worth practicing in the mirror for a few minutes before you make the town. Make sure you’re smiling with your whole face, not just your mouth.

Step Five: Commit to the Interaction

  Once you start talking to her, you need to be committed to the interaction. What do we mean by committed? Basically, you need to roll with the punches and keep your good humor at the same time. Keep the smile going. Take your silly opening joke to its logical conclusion. The point is that you can say anything during this stage of the interaction, provided that it’s light, playful and content free. But once you start down a road, follow it to the end.

Step Six: Showing Interest

   Some men think that showing interest is a bad idea. However, this is far from the truth. You want to show interest, but you need to do it in the right way, at the right time. Once you’ve got her laughing and smiling, it’s time to show interest. Be simple about it. Merely tell her something like “I dig you” or “You seem cool.” This is also the place where you begin building a bridge to more serious conversation. Ask her something open ended like “Tell me three things about yourself I wouldn’t guess” or “What’s your deal?”

The point here is to let her know you’re interested in something other than her appearance.

Step Seven: Avoid Boredom

   When talking to a girl for the first time, one of the worst things you can do is boring her. First of all, if you are boring, she will have absolutely no interest in getting to know you further. Second of all, if you respond with the exact same things that she has heard a zillion times before, she will assume that you are like every other guy she has met before. And you don’t want to be lumped into that pool!

Step Eight: Backup

   You are strongly advice to have a mental list of backup questions you can use if you stumble on an uncomfortable pause.

   Use the conversation to find out more about her, but be subtle. For instance, if you want to find out if she already has a boyfriend, you could casually ask, "So, anything fun planned with your boyfriend for the weekend?" If she doesn't have one and she's interested in you, she'll let you know immediately.

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Step Nine: Close the conversation early

 Follow that old saying - "Always leave them wanting more." Find a way to gracefully duck out of the conversation before it goes stale.

Good luck!

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