Going into a relationship is like having a garden. Does
having a garden ends there? No. you still have to put some seeds there and keep
on nourishing it.
The relationship we get into is like the illustration of
someone having a garden. For a relationship to keep moving ahead smoothly, it’s
expected that both parties have agreed to be in that relationship.
Just the way your garden needs your time and effort, so
also your relationship demands that you put the whole of your time and effort
in order to keep it strong and growing.
There is a good feeling of joy when a relationship is
going the way our heart truly wants it to go.
No one desires to have a broken relationship all along
the line. So for our relationship not to grow weeds along the line, we need to
constantly weed out those ugly habits or characters that do not aid to the
growth of the relationship.
It is also important to know that when one party is not
living up expectation as no one is perfect, it requires the other party to
carry that burden of making the relationship a good one.
The truth is that we can build a strong and better
relationship- relationship that is rich in love, joyful and meaningful.
There are qualities that if only we can develop in
ourselves, our relationship won’t be a problem.
Here are the must have qualities if you really want to build a strong relationship.
Note: The Qualities are applicable to both parties in a
relationship.
1. Common interest:
If the man and the woman have almost the same interest,
it will be very hard for them to have a problem in the relationship. A
relationship becomes stronger if the two share or have a common goal and
purpose. It helps tighten the bond of their love and they both have to work
together and succeed together as well.
Having a common interest with your lover is also good and
helpful in a relationship. Both lovers get to know the likes and dislikes of
each other.
It also helps them to visualize things in the same manner
thereby avoiding arguments.
For a relationship to be strong and going, the lovers
should know what they really want from each other and also have that spirit of
unity.
2. Constant Love and Affection
Most relationship
depends solely on this-love. If you want a strong smooth relationship, you
cannot run away from this.
When I talk about constant love here, I also talk about
total commitment. You can’t say that you love someone and you are not committed
and devoted to that person. Love demands commitment.
Every relationship stands if both lovers are devoted and
truly committed to each other in that anything that hurts one pains the other.
Showing love, kindness and affection is a sure way to
building a strong relationship.
3. Total Submission and Humbleness
A great relationship is achieved if both parties are
submissive to each other.
We should have the heart to always help our partner in
whatsoever way we can.
Submission demands that both lovers be humble to each
other. It does not matter if you are the one carrying all the burdens of the
relationship on your shoulder. What matters is that you are always humble. Be
you the man or the woman.
4.
Total
Honesty and Trust
Allowing doubt to creep into your relationship cannot
help that relationship. It will only kill it. Be sincere with your partner;
don’t give them the benefit of doubting your love for them. If the truth has to
be told, say it.
We should always learn to build a ‘TRUST REPUTATION’
A relationship is strong if you are always honest with
your partner and that they also trust you.
Also, learn to trust your partner and don’t let your
friends or what people say mislead you from trusting them.
5. Unreserved Faithfulness and Commitment
The level of faithfulness determines how far and how well
a relationship can go. You don’t expect to build a strong relationship and yet
you are still looking for other people to fall in love with.
If you are faithful, your partner would know.
6. Total Honour and Respect
For a relationship to keep growing and remain firm, it’s
expected that both lovers have a great deal of respect for each other.
Show respect for each other’s personal space, honour each
other’s dignity and pride. Don’t take your relationship for granted if you
really want to keep it.
7.
A Strong
Backbone and Support
The fact is, a relationship continues to wax stronger in
love everyday if both lovers are always giving support and encouragement to
each other.
If one person is falling, the other should be there to
hold them tight so they don’t lose their balance.
8. Right words and Sincere Communication
Communication is most important because it is the only
way people express their thoughts and feelings. Saying the right words to each
other with a soft tone is good if you want to have a healthy relationship. It
shows you respect and honour them.
In your speech with your partner, be sincere.
Even if you are both faced with little challenges along
the line, learn to first listen to the other person. From listening, also learn
to understand them.
In doing so, you can both sort out any problem without
shouting or yelling.
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